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Welcome to our slash and mind the butthole where we get to judge strangers on the internet.

Am I the butthole for reminding my husband's female friend that my husband is my husband and not hers?

My husband Jake and I have been together for six years and he's been friends with Carly for two

years longer than that. I suspect that Carly has feelings for Jake but he's never really had

feelings for her. I've never been thrilled about their friendship but I trust my husband and have

total confidence he would never cheat. A year ago, Carly moved into our neighborhood. She lives

alone and she picked up the habit of asking Jake to help her with housework and maintenance.

When her water heater broke, she called Jake. When she needed help setting up a TV, she called Jake.

When her trees needed trimming, she called Jake, etc. etc. you get the idea.

Jake and Carly also work near each other downtown and a few days a week. She'll ask him for a ride

to work when she doesn't feel like driving. She also started dropping by her house unannounced,

usually when she's having a bad day and wants to mint to Jake about it. She relies on him heavily

for emotional support 24-7. While I've tried to be patient and respectful of my husband's

friendship with her, I've become less and less tolerant of Carly in the past few months as I

feel she's become a constant presence in our marriage. The final straw came yesterday. As a medical

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