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shoes that I got from my husband after he accused me of stealing from him? I'm 29, and my husband,

whose 36 is the breadwinner of the family. I stay home with the kids who are preschool age.

He pays for the mortgage, bills, household needs, food, kids, etc. He has a monthly budget for

each category and he pays for everything himself. Recently, he's become overwhelmed and he told me

to handle grocery shopping. But before he let me, he asked me to write a list of all the stuff

that we need so we could calculate the total, and also so he'd have an idea of how much I'd be

spending when I take his credit card. I didn't have an issue with that because this way we would watch

our spending habits. However, he said that I never allowed to get something that isn't on the list

unless I'm paying for it some other way. On Friday, I was doing some grocery shopping as usual,

and I saw the store had some nice shoes on sale. The price was insanely low for the brands,

so I decided to grab a pair for my husband, thinking he'd be happy with them since he needed

a new sneaker anyway. I bought them, and when I showed them to him, he flipped out on me,

saying that I made a huge mistake by buying something that wasn't on the list. I agreed with him,

but I thought that since the shoes were for him, then it'd be different. But he said that I screwed

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