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Welcome to R slash am I the butthole where Opie's wife gives her friend an emergency

boob job. Am I the butthole for refusing to pay for my wife's

emergency surgery because she spent our savings on her friend's boob job? I'm a 34-year-old guy,

and my wife is 32. We've been married for seven years. We're generally good with money,

but we've been saving for a long overdue home renovation. Last month, I found out

that my wife secretly loaned $10,000 of our savings to her best friend for a boob job. She didn't

tell me until after it was done, saying that it was a gift of kindness and that I'd understand

because her friend was depressed. I was furious, but let it slide

because the money was technically still in the family account, and I figured that we would rebuild it.

Fast forward to last week, and my wife had a medical issue requiring immediate surgery. It wasn't

life-threatening, but the doctor said that it needed to be addressed quickly.

When the bill came, she assumed that we would pay out of our savings. But I told her that I

wasn't using the rest of the account for this since she had already decided what the money was for.

I suggested she asked her best friend to help with the bill. She called me heartless and said that I

was being petty and punishing

her over something unrelated. Her family is furious saying that I'm prioritizing a renovation over her

health. I told them they're free to pitch in, but I'm standing my ground. She's staying with her mom

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