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The Daily Dad

Questions Deserve Answers

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Society & Culture, Dads, Relationships, Parenting, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Ryan Holiday, Wisdom, Education, Fatherhood

4.8602 Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2022

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

Kids are curious. Most adults aren’t. How does that happen? Most kids stop being curious because the adults around them weren’t curious. The trait wasn’t encouraged…so it disappeared.
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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast, where we provide one lesson every single day to help you

0:07.9

with your most important job, being a parent. I'm Ryan Holiday, and I draw these lessons from

0:15.2

ancient philosophy, modern psychology, practical wisdom, and insights from parents just like you all over the world.

0:24.1

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:33.6

Questions deserve answers.

0:36.7

Kids are curious. Most adults aren't. How does that happen? Well, most kids

0:42.1

stop being curious because most adults around them weren't curious. The trait wasn't encouraged,

0:48.7

so it disappeared. As a kid, the future outdoorsman, Stephen Rinella, was curious.

0:59.6

But instead of stifling or shutting down that curiosity, even if it was occasionally annoying,

1:03.4

his parents facilitated it, pushed him to follow through on it.

1:08.4

As he writes in his wonderful book, Outdoor Kids in an Inside World, which you can get at the painted porch, He says, I was taught that questions deserved answers.

1:12.4

At times, questions demanded answers. If I wondered about a particular bird, I was tasked with

1:17.9

finding it in one of the guidebooks that were kept on a shelf above the piano. Trees weren't just

1:22.8

trees. They had names and attributes. We have to do this with our kids and not stop, whatever their age.

1:30.8

Remember what Sandra Day O'Connor said? She said, if you're not curious, you're not smart.

1:36.0

Curiosity leads to answers, leads to discovery, which leads to being a smart and capable person in the

1:41.5

world. When our kids express an interest when they have a question,

1:45.3

we have to fan that spark. We have to teach them that they deserve. No, they must demand and

1:50.1

answer. Things have names and attributes and an interesting and educated life. It's about

1:55.3

finding out what they are. Don't be the end of their curiosity. be the influence that made it a lifelong happen.

2:08.1

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2:13.9

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