This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to this episode of The Authentic Sex Podcast. My name is Juliet.

I'm a sexologist, a sex and relationship coach and a tantra practitioner.

And today I'm doing a Q&A.

I've had heaps of messages in my inbox from you guys, asking various questions.

And so every now and then I'm going to chuck in a Q&A as an episode because likely it's likely that the questions that some people

are asking will relate to all of you and you all want to ask the same question. So, um, so yeah, I'm just going to freestyle on these.

I actually have, I've written a list as I go, but I haven't looked over them yet.

So, um, bear with me.

I will give you the best advice that I can.

Um, most likely from personal experience as well as professional

advice. So question number one, is it normal to cry during sex or after orgasm? And I absolutely

love this question. Thank you for asking because I love crying during sex.

And yeah, it's completely normal.

Basically, when orgasmic energy and sexual energy is, well, it's always present in our body, but when it's

moving and cycling through our body at a higher rate than normal, then what can happen is

that energy stirs up emotion in our body. And so when we're making love or fucking,

it's normal for emotion to come up and you know we're often taught

that we need to push that emotion down because emotion isn't sexy especially when it's crying

or anger um so yes it's normal to cry let out, make sure that you are with somebody or people

that can be present with you and can hold you in that emotion.

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