Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To Andy's "Men Are Mature At 36" Rule

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 16 June 2022

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has long said the "maturity threshold" for men is age 36—does he have an age equivalent for women? And is refusing to go down on your partner a potential dealbreaker in the world of dating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Q1: What Is The Straight Woman's Equivalent To Andy's "You're Not A Mature Man Until Age 36"?

11:12 - Q2: When Can I Tell My Friend She Sucks At Dating?

26:44 - Q3: I Have Zero Interest In Giving A Blowjob—Shandy's Thoughts?

39:59 - Q4: I Was A Covid Bride And Can't Decide If We Should Have A Wedding Do-Over—Shandy's Thoughts?

54:51 - Q5: I Like My New Guy But I Hate His Style—Am I Superficial For Wanting To Change It?

1:01:16 - Q6: My Husband And I Squabble Over The Fact That I Don't Like Hanging With His Friend—Thoughts?

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Transcript

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0:00.0	It was the first time I ever saw one and it's not like I'm nearly was like, okay, putting that in my mouth.
0:03.6	I totally agree. Yeah, like it's so cute. It's like a monster.
0:06.2	Yeah.
0:08.5	I told you the first time I saw a virgin island, I was like, I'm not going in there.
0:10.8	Ha ha ha.
0:13.9	Dear Shandee.
0:17.2	Welcome back to Dear Shandee listeners. Hello, Andy. Hello. How are you today?
0:22.0	Doing okay.
0:22.7	Doing okay. It's Q and A day. Sure is.
0:25.5	I always miss Q and A's. Me too. Me too.
0:28.1	Shandee's are coming up with they just keep coming up with good questions.
0:31.2	They do and it's at the point where really I have a hard time choosing.
0:34.5	You heard me before we started recording this one. I was like, I don't know which ones to choose.
0:38.8	After, let's call it 25 Q and A's, they keep coming up with so many good questions that we can't even choose.
0:44.1	Mm-hmm. Isn't that nice?
0:46.0	It is nice. When I read our Shandee's questions, I'm like, these are our people.
0:50.2	Our people. Yeah.
0:51.2	We finally did it. We weeded out the edges.
0:53.2	We got rid of them. With defensiveness.
0:58.1	We trimmed the fat. Yeah.
1:00.3	Okay. Shall we get to our lovely, our true Shandee's questions?
1:05.2	Let's do it. Let's do it.
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