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Simple Families

Q&A | Should you make kids apologize?

Simple Families

Cloud10 and iHeartPodcasts

Kids & Family, Parenting, Education For Kids

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 January 2020

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Should we insist that our kids apologize or say “I’m sorry”? I actually don’t. However, both my kids have come to apologize and express authentic empathy in their early years (without my demanding it). They have learned to do so naturally through their environment. When it comes to teaching manners and empathy, we can cue our kids to use certain expressions. But often it’s not about teaching. It’s about exposing them to things like manners and empathy in their influential relationships with adults. Children learn better through exposure in their natural environment. So instead of direct teaching, we can show them how it’s done ourselves. Timestamps: 1:18 // Something Simple I’m Loving: Knowledge Encyclopedia 2:51 // About our big book overhaul: Reading Aloud + Our Book Overhaul 5:45 // Today’s Sponsor: Care/Of 7:04 // Today’s Question: Should you make kids apologize? The post Q&A | Should you make kids apologize? appeared first on Simple Families.

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0:00.0

Hello, welcome to episode 188, and today I'm answering the question, should you make your kids apologize?

0:07.0

Hi, this is Deney. I'm the founder of Simple Families.

0:11.0

Simple Families is an online community for parents who are seeking a simpler, more intentional life.

0:17.0

In this show, we focus on minimalism with kids, positive parenting, family wellness, and decreasing the mental load.

0:26.2

My perspectives are based in my firsthand experience raising kids, but also rooted in

0:30.6

my PhD in child development.

0:33.4

So you're going to hear conversations that are based in research,

0:36.2

but more importantly, real life.

0:38.9

Thanks for joining us. Welcome to Simple Families. I'm so glad to have you back. If you're new to the show,

0:49.1

this is our weekly Q&A episode where I take a question from an audience member.

0:54.2

This week I'm going to answer a question about making our kids apologize and how do we

0:58.1

handle it if someone else tries to make our kids apologize?

1:01.8

And furthermore, how do we handle it

1:03.3

when other adults are talking to our kids

1:05.2

in a way that we don't love?

1:06.8

Before we get into that question for the day,

1:08.5

I want to share my something simple that I'm loving this week.

1:12.6

This week it's a book.

1:13.6

It's called The Knowledge Encyclopedia.

1:16.0

It's a Smithsonian book.

1:17.6

I'll put the link in the show notes at simple families.com forward slash episode 188.

1:22.4

First let me give you a little background on why

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