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Dear Shandy

Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2021

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why might a guy disappear after sex? If you want to rekindle with an ex, or "double dip", where's the line between following your heart and being cavalier with someone's feelings? And "number ratings": uncomfortable truth or unnecessarily cruel? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


Q1: Did He Hit It And Quit It?

Q2: The Guy I'm Seeing Rated Me A "7 Or 8"—Is He For Real?

Q3: Living Together Led To Our Breakup, But Now That He's Moved Out, I Want Him Back. Do I Have A Chance?

Q4: My Longtime Gym Crush Hasn't Made A Move—How Should I Proceed?

Q5: My Ex From Several Years Back Is Single And I Feel I've Made It Clear I'm Interested Again—Thoughts?


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0:00.0

I'm allowed to give Holier the now advice and also be much less holy than than now.

0:06.0

Let's let us think every I think every therapist is an angel.

0:14.6

Dear Shandee.

0:17.8

Welcome back to Dear Shandee listeners. Hello Andy. Hello, Charlene.

0:23.2

You're using my full name today. Which always sounds weird.

0:26.3

It does, but I think it's important because I've noticed some people I think newcomers seem to think my name is Shandee.

0:35.2

I guess if you really just don't know anything about anything.

0:43.2

Anyway, no judgment, but now once and for all, my name is Charlene and Shandee is a play on our names.

0:50.4

And I don't think that Shandee is an actual person's name.

0:52.9

I feel like there's probably people out there named Shandee.

0:57.1

I suspect that if our many listeners and viewers, there is not a single Shandee.

1:02.2

Really?

1:03.2

I mean, it would be amazing if there was. I would think that they would have spoken up already.

1:07.5

That's true. That's the only reason why I think you might be right.

1:10.1

But let's ask them, Shandee's. Are any of you named Shandee?

1:15.0

Let us know. We want to know. That was quite the tangent.

1:19.2

Yes.

1:19.6

But we have questions to get to. Shall we?

1:22.8

Yes.

1:24.0

All right. This first question is from when Casper Flakes on Wendy.

1:30.8

Dear Shandee, greetings from New England. First, I just want to say that I love your show,

1:36.5

slash podcast. I love it when people call it a show.

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