Punitive vs Restorative- Podcast #480
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Todd and Cathy Adams
4.9 • 637 Ratings
🗓️ 19 February 2019
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Cathy and Todd discuss the difference between a punitive (inflicting punishment) and restorative perspective (seeking to understand and address what happened to all involved), and why it’s important to recognize how we parent and why. They discuss why a restorative approach necessitates self-awareness and mindfulness, and why our willingness to effectively communicate with our kids about choices will help them with their decision-making as adults.
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12:06 Punitive vs Restorative Parenting
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| 0:00.0 | Do do do do do do do here we go my name's Todd this is Kathy |
| 0:06.8 | Welcome back to another episode of Zen Parenting Radio |
| 0:09.5 | This is podcast number 480 sweetie |
| 0:12.7 | Which you might think are three even numbers don't you |
| 0:16.4 | But they're not |
| 0:17.8 | I hadn't thought about it |
| 0:18.6 | Because I think our friend Tina Park said that zero isn't |
| 0:22.1 | even. It's not even a number. It's, I think it's the absence of numbers. But I could be |
| 0:26.3 | completely wrong too. Let's talk more about it. Why listen to Zen Parenting Radio? Because you'll feel |
| 0:31.6 | outstanding. And who does want to feel outstanding? And I always remember a motto, which is that the best predictor of a child's well-being is a parent's self-understanding. On today's show, I'm going to do a quick take. |
| 0:42.8 | I'm going to answer a listener's question about her 12-year-old son, or we are, sweetie, not me, |
| 0:48.8 | we. Actually, mostly you, let's be honest. Well, I didn't even know we were talking about that. |
| 0:55.9 | Sure. |
| 0:56.5 | I said I'm going to bring up that. |
| 0:58.3 | Question? |
| 0:58.8 | And then your deal. |
| 0:59.9 | Okay. |
| 1:00.3 | What's your deal? |
| 1:00.9 | Can we go this way to that way? |
| 1:02.7 | Can we do the question at the end? |
| 1:04.0 | Yeah, for the beginning. |
| 1:04.9 | Okay. |
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