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🗓️ 20 January 2025
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0:00.0 | Hello, friends, and welcome to the Liz Moody podcast, where every week we're sharing real science, |
0:04.8 | real stories, and realistic tools that actually level up every part of your life. |
0:09.1 | I'm your host, Liz Moody, and I am a best-selling author and longtime journalist. |
0:12.8 | Today, I'm going to be sharing some mindset shifts. |
0:16.1 | Science-backed ways to overcome the thoughts that are keeping you from creating the life of your dreams. |
0:21.8 | I asked you over on Instagram to share some of the thoughts and negative beliefs that are standing |
0:25.6 | in your way and you sent literally thousands in, but there was a ton of overlap. So these are the |
0:31.9 | ones that came up the most commonly. I've got a lot of thoughts here. so let's just dive right in with the first negative |
0:39.7 | belief. This is actually a set of beliefs that I grouped together because I think that they have a |
0:44.6 | similar route. I'm worried people will make fun of me for trying. Friends and family will |
0:49.9 | judge me. Strangers will judge me. People care about what I am doing at the gym, online, |
0:56.5 | in all different parts of my life. Okay, so to combat this set of beliefs, let's start off with a |
1:02.6 | very famous bit of psychology research. Years ago, a team of researchers asked people to wear a |
1:08.8 | very embarrassing shirt in public and then rate how much |
1:12.3 | other people noticed it. The people who wore the shirt overestimated by a very large margin, |
1:18.7 | how much other people even noticed, much less cared about the embarrassing shirt that they were |
1:23.9 | wearing. This led to what researchers coined to be called the spotlight effect, |
1:29.8 | essentially the mistaken belief that other people notice or care about us much more than they |
1:34.9 | actually do. By the way, this proved true on the positive side as well. The same researchers had |
1:40.4 | students wear a really cool shirt, and no one noticed or cared about that either. |
1:45.2 | There has been so much research confirming that by and large, people do not care about us |
1:51.4 | nearly as much as we think they do. And this is because they are too busy thinking about |
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