Cessia more questions there Stella yes yes okay I'm going to read this question I feel I need practice speaking about my situation

conversational strategies things to tell other adults I don't know how to speak about how we're not using

our daughter's preferred pronouns. At this stage, I've avoided all the surface level conversations

just because they're so difficult. Very common, very common scenario here. Very

common and sometimes very wise because sometimes they go very badly as conversations. So it's self-protective and I can I can see why it is.

However, it's well worth well worth putting some

journaling, some effort into.

Literally, a surface, you write out, just, you know,

bit of journaling, write out a surface conversation with Laura,

a surface conversation with Barry, a surface conversation with Laura, a surface conversation with Barry, a surface conversation with

Lionel, that you just imagine how it goes because everybody has a different flavor and you just

imagine saying it to each person and you're all you're doing is kind of

rolling it around in your mind because what it is is you're trying to talk about

trigonobentry to somebody as you're walking by it's really. And it's a good point.

Aren't you?

It's like, how do you say that kind of lightly?

I know.