Okay, we're back with another question.

Stella, can you read it?

Yeah.

A friend of my daughters has identified as trans.

This girl is wearing binders and the mother doesn't know anything.

The mother is actually

entirely oblivious to the situation. However, this same mother is using my child's

preferred pronouns and she never checked with me if this was okay. She doesn't know anything about her child's

preferred pronouns even though everybody is using them apart from her. When do you

know how to open up this question and should you open up this conversation with another

parent. So it's kind of like a parent, it's almost like should you tell a parent that their child is identifying as

trans it's more than that because your own child is identifying as trans so

actually you could have a very productive quote there's there was an element of So actually I'm

I'm furious with this parent because she was no friend of mine.

She didn't do anything.

She didn't check in with me.

And I'd say, yeah, yeah, you're probably right about all that yeah yeah

seething rage and I'd also say however this could be very productive if it was

managed right if you follow me and so it's important to kind of you know the

way Winston Churchill says it's not enough to do your best sometimes you have to do

what's required I think you could really do something really quite good here but I not necessarily I it's so tricky these days you never know how somebody's going to respond so you can't

You can't open up this conversation with the presumption that somebody's going to slap their

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