How important is it in that period right when you recover in that way to start having sex again?

I'm going to give a very unpopular answer for maybe our male partners, but a very popular and

needed response for the moms who have just given birth. That six-week mark is absolutely not

a clearing to go and have sex. You are still healing and unfortunately society puts this pressure

on mothers to say, okay, you're all cleared. You can go and have sex now. You're still healing.

Hey guys, it's Carly and this is Jade. Welcome to Mommy's Tell All.

I am very excited today. We're going to be joined by clinical psychologist and couples therapist,

Dr. Tracy Delg. We're going to have to ask her how to say her last name, but right now I'm going to

say, Doug Lee, Del Gleish. How would you say that? This is very interesting because I feel like in our,

especially in our Mommy's Tell All podcast group, we have so many questions on how to keep your

relationships spicy, how to even like your partner. When you become a mom, you're exhausted and

it's really hard to figure out even how to connect anymore almost. Where do you find the time?

How do you do it properly? What if you have different opinions on parenting? There's so many different

things that we have to ask her about. Even with friendships, we talk about this a few weeks

ago, but how to keep friendships going and all relationships in general when you are a new mom.

So that's going to be really fun to delve deeper into a conversation about that. But in the meantime,

how is your relationship going? Don't ask me about that.

Having a baby and we have multiple babies and changes your relationships so much.

You know, it's, yeah, your new person, your partner is a new person. You know, it affects them just

maybe not as much as us, but it affects them. Yeah. And so we are learning about a new baby

and how to take care of a baby. It's somebody we just met who can't vocalize their needs and who

needs us 24, 7. And we're learning who ourselves are as a mother. And then we have a partner sometimes.

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