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🗓️ 22 December 2023
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Happy holidays nieces and nephews
Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B talk about “pop psychology” and how it has everyone on the internet in a chokehold over the words: love bombing, gaslighting, narcissism, etc.
Spoiler alert, everyone you dislike isn't a narcissist (8:00).
The two talk about:
(10:00) the dangers to self-diagnosing without seeking professional guidance, the difference between grandiose arrogance and confidence
(11:00) being indifferent vs having a lack of empathy
(17:00) The dangers of over-indulgence / codependency
(23:00) People who gift while centering THEIR desires for YOU
(24:00) How to acknowledge your partner’s EFFORTS while also honoring your DESIRES
(30:00) Conflict isn’t always abuse/gaslighting
(32:00) Baiting someone into an argument
(40:00) Everything doesn’t have to be “normalized”
(45:00) Speaking like an HR memo isn’t self-awareness
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0:00.0 | Whether outside is human she's hey hey hey, hey, huh she want to run the street so |
0:07.5 | Let her whole letter whole let her whole let her home let her go let her go let her go |
0:10.4 | Let's go |
0:13.0 | Okay Let's go. Okay. Who am I to be? |
0:15.0 | Blockin. |
0:16.0 | Hey! |
0:17.0 | I really hate to see you go. |
0:18.0 | Let her ho, let her ho, let her ho, let her ho. |
0:21.0 | Happy holidays y'all! |
0:28.0 | Welcome to a very special episode of See the Thing is I'm your girl Mandy, but I'm also that niggi |
0:32.0 | but I'm also that nigga for real and I'm a bad bitch and I'm bridge of Kelly and we're here to give you all the grown honest slightly toxic best ofs of the year right? No. Aren't we? No. From Patreon? Not really best ofs, but... I feel like this is kind of a best ofs. Well, stuffs is. |
0:48.0 | Ish. As you guys know, we have been on Patreon for about two years now and there are a ton ton ton of |
0:56.2 | content over there and we went through our favorites of 2023 and wanted to share what Patreon content looks like over there |
1:06.2 | and this one I found to be very interesting and also was a favorite amongst our patrons |
1:11.3 | yes we dug into pop psychology and when we talk about that is actually a lot to do with the words. Y'all been hearing a lot this month. |
1:19.0 | Like narcissism. Toxic, manipulation, gas lighting, |
1:25.0 | love bombing. |
1:26.8 | Now, this episode, we don't get into those words at all, |
1:29.7 | but we do kind of deep dive into what pop psychology looks like and what it really is is a lot of us |
1:35.5 | diagnosing each other ourselves based on what we're seeing on Tik-Tok and having a real |
1:41.1 | misinformed, uneducated idea of what things mean from a psychological lens. |
1:48.0 | Which I really think for us, part of why this episode struck so many chords with people on Patreon was really because a lot of what |
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