When we're young we have an amazing positive outlook about how great life is going to be

but somewhere along the line we forget to dream and end up settling. Join up dots

features amazing people who refuse to give up and chose to go after their dreams.

This is your blueprint for greatness. So here's your host, live from the back of his

garden in the UK, David Ralph.

Yes, hello there everybody and welcome to episode 240 of join up dots and I'm so excited because it's Christmas Eve. Yes, I've been good all year and I think the big man is going to come and bring me something amazing. I don't know what he's going to bring me. I'm a dad so he'll probably bring me a load of credit card bills or something. No, I shouldn't say things like that. But it's going to be a good night and if you don't listen tomorrow I'll let you off just make sure

that you listen for two episodes the day after. Well let's me introduce you to

today's guest he is a man who kindly had me on his amazing show, The Business of Marriage back in November,

and such a good time we had, well I just had to reciprocate to bring him on my own.

He is a man who has so many things going on in his life, but quite simply he could be classed as a man who has so many things going on in his life.

Now quite simply he could be classed as a man

married to his job, but actually his job

is to bring work and marriage together.

He looks for a happy point where he can work hard, enjoy himself, but also keep his marriage to his beloved wife Shannon ticking along better than most.

And instead of keeping this secret to himself and feeling content that he has managed to do something that so many people

struggle with, he helps others to do the same.

Since January 2006, he's coached, mentored and supported individuals and companies across America to work harder than they

thought possible to reconnect, communicate at a deeper level and support their other half.

And when it comes to the entrepreneurs of the world who quite often focus more on their businesses to create

the income that they want than spending quality time with their special ones, he's your man.

As he says, the fastest way to increase your financial income in your business and your emotional income in your personal life is by strengthening your relationship capital.

So did you ever go in an opposing direction to where he is now and falling to the trap that brings so many couples

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