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It's important to know what your spouse likes and doesn't like and to not kind of

you know get after them in something that really irritates them. For instance, my

dear wife likes to wake up and come into the kitchen and find no dishes in the

sink. Now she these days she gets up before me. But when I was getting up

before her, I had to be very careful because if I used any cup or bowl or

anything and I put it in the sink and she walked into the kitchen, you were

going down. It was not a pleasant experience. Well, I'm John Fuller in the

studio with Aaron and Greg Smalley. They lead our marriage team and I know that

you two have counseled couples like me who have these irritations. We leverage

them sometimes just to spite our spouse. You've never seen it in your own

relationship though, right? No, we we have no irritations. The one that came to

my mind is you said that those I don't like large gathering parties, large

gathering of people that I really don't know. And there's a there's a party that

we often get invited to every year. I'm not gonna say where, when, just in

case, this is where you have a steep peak, right? Yeah, where it's just it's a

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