Who am I to be successful? Who am I to write the book? Who am I to be on stage?

Who am I to be somebody? I kind of used this and I didn't know if it was healthy or not, but now

realizing it's very healthy. It's actually productive, but I've been channeling someone else and now when I'm looking at the film even of my

event I watch it and it's almost like I don't know who that is. I was terrified

of rejection terrified of people saying no because it was like they were saying no to Todd Herman.

I was failing as a human being if someone said no to.

What's up friend? What's going on? So what book changed my life last year? Great

question. It was the alter ego effect by Todd Herman.

And that's exactly why I brought Todd on the show today.

You're going to love this conversation.

We dive into all things, imposter syndrome.

Should you fake it until you make it and what does this mean to

have alter egos how do we actually step into these different versions of

ourselves in order to be brave or to be successful.

And I start this episode explaining to Todd that since I was little,

I've done this thing where when I'm nervous or I feel like I'm not good enough or I'm feeling imposter syndrome

whether it's a book an event a project a new business speaking on stage to thousands

of people whatever it, if I'm nervous, I actually have an alter ego.

I haven't named her, but I have this version of myself that is really, really brave.

It's the woman inside me who is unstoppable and she

believes that she's enough and she believes that she deserves to be there

and to be in the room and to be successful and to be happy and there has been so many times now in my career

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