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🗓️ 5 August 2025
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This is where you find out how well you did in the early years. Ages 9-14 are when your kids start "pedaling the bike" themselves—and you'll quickly discover if they learned balance or if you need to grab the handlebars again. They're big enough to argue back, smart enough to ask "why," and awkward enough to make you question everything. Most parents get fearful during this stage, but we're here to give you biblical wisdom for navigating the logic stage. This episode gives you the tools to disciple (not just survive) your pre-teen. Because this isn't just about getting through—it's about raising covenant kids who love Jesus.
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0:00.0 | Hey all. |
0:04.2 | Welcome to Cross Politics on the Fight Laugh Feast Network. |
0:06.9 | Pastor Toby Chuck Knox on the Waterboy. |
0:09.4 | It's back to our series on Raising Kids. |
0:13.3 | What's it called? |
0:14.4 | And we haven't done it in so long. |
0:17.2 | It's been a month or a month and a half or something since we were last able to. So the first couple shows in this series, podcast in the series, we were focusing on more kind of like what I would, what you would call the benevolent dictator phase, kind of that one to seven. What God would call. What God would call. The benevolent dictator. A benevolent kingship. Yeah. That's right. Monarch. Yeah. Benevolent patriarchy. We definitely believe in the monarchy from ages zero to seven. That's good. That's right. So constitutional. You know, kind of the younger years laying the foundation, you got to have good concrete, good foundation for the kids. And today we want to talk. The politics of good genes. Sorry. I saw you guys do that. That was, that was pretty funny. My producers just told us five years, why you have five years to raise your kids. That's our, that was the first part of the series. Why you have five years to raise your kids. Why you have even fewer years to raise your junior high kids. Junior high kids. So the politics of junior high. Yeah, you're done. It's this. This is the next phase. Why you have six months to raise your teenagers. And they're done. Yeah. And this, you know, kind of look, this phase is kind of that, that junior highish phase. that kind of 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, no, 14-ish kind of phase. |
1:10.8 | I think people know that. kind of look this phase is kind of that that that junior highish phase that kind of nine 10 11 12 13 |
1:29.4 | 14ish kind of phase I think people know the years yeah I think they do well I'm adding 14 in |
1:34.3 | I'm including 14 which people would say wouldn't be junior high some people do and everything well |
1:38.1 | if you're me did it twice so you know that's why it's put I'm just kidding is that why this is a little |
1:43.1 | bit like tender for you you're're like, and even 14. It's true. This is the time, though. Like, this is a, this is the time where you do start getting your report cards back of what you've done in the previous years. Right. Like, so you realize in this point, like, oh, we have some corrections. Let me go back to the drawing board. See what |
2:01.5 | these blueprints say I didn't do right. Not just some corrections, but some repentance. |
2:06.0 | This is where you see, oh, maybe me as a parent, I need to repent of this because you kind of see |
2:10.9 | it in your kids. Right. I think it's really important to do that first. So when we're talking about raising kids, disciplining kids, |
2:19.7 | teaching them, correcting them, Jesus says before you try to take the speck out of your brother's eye, |
2:24.8 | you've got to remove the log from your own eye. And that applies to you correcting your kids. |
2:30.2 | That means check yourself first. And you just said it well knox but that is like you know how your |
2:35.8 | kids are doing really are is generally is a report card yeah because because i mean who who is |
2:42.8 | who is training them you are us and so i mean that can you can you can you can have sins of commission |
2:50.3 | you've sinned against them in some way shape or form, you can have sins of commission. |
2:48.5 | You've sinned against them in some way, shape, or form, or you can have sins of omission. You realize you didn't teach them. Yeah. Like one time, I'm, I'm like, you don't bust me out? I'm going to bust myself. Oh, okay. I was like, don't, don't bust me. I got plenty. No, one time I mean this is a |
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