Parenting Without Shame: Growing Kids God's Way?

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Religion & Spirituality, Philosophy, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 21 February 2024

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

Mike Erre and Tim Stafford delve into the heart of parenting without shame, discussing how letting go of controlling outcomes and embracing faithfulness can transform our relationships with our children. By focusing on cultivating fruit rather than enforcing boundaries, they explore how to reflect Jesus's unconditional love, reject shame-based parenting, and foster genuine connection and growth.

Key Takeaways:

The Difference Between Fruit and Outcomes – Understanding how focusing on faithfulness and cultivating fruit differs from trying to control outcomes in parenting and life.
Rejecting Shame-Based Parenting – Exploring the harmful effects of shame and fear in traditional parenting models, and how to parent without shame.
Embracing Faithfulness Over Control – Discussing how prioritizing faithfulness and connection over controlling behaviors leads to deeper relationships with our children.
Center-Set vs. Boundary-Set Parenting – Examining the shift from boundary-focused parenting to a center-set approach that mirrors Jesus's way with us.
Old Creation vs. New Creation Dynamics – Highlighting how engaging in old creation behaviors (control, fear, shame) contrasts with living out new creation practices (love, patience, kindness).

Resources Mentioned:

"The Patient Ferment of the Early Church" by Alan Kreider
Scripture References: Mark 4:26-29 (Parable of the Growing Seed), 1 Corinthians 3:5-7
Previous Episodes: Episode 441 – Evaluating Good and Bad Fruit and Controlling Outcomes

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Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford

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As always, we encourage and would love discussion as we pursue. Feel free to email in questions to [email protected], and to engage the conversation on Facebook and Instagram.

We're on YouTube (if you're into that kinda thing): VOXOLOGY TV.

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Support the Voxology Podcast on Patreon

The Voxology Spotify channel can be found here: Voxology Radio

Follow Mike on Twitter: www.twitter.com/mikeerre

Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford

Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy

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