Hey, it's Kelly, and at the end of every week, I like to share something true and useful,

something I stumbled over that gave me a burst of optimism, something you can share with

friends like an audio greeting card, something to help us all keep our eyes on what's working

and what could be.

So, I'll be right back with this week's For The Good of the Order.

This is Kelly Corgan Wonders.

So, a huge part of my life is trying to figure out how to be a better parent to these two

kids I've brought into the world.

And I had been hearing a lot about a guy named Ken Ginsburg.

He's on the Today Show and Good Morning America, CBS Morning.

He's also been on CNN and NPR.

And he had this quote that spoke to me, which is, as we raise children, our goal has to

be to prepare them to be happy, healthy, 35-year-olds.

And there was something about that framing that really spoke to me.

So, I asked him if he would have a set of conversations with me about some very specific

things, ways of reframing almost the way we think about parenthood.

So, if you've been following along, you know today is number four.

I have a few friends who are therapists and one of them said, I was asking about all

of her young patients.

I said, what do you wish you could give them?

And she said, a day off, I wish I could do therapy with their parents.

I don't need to talk to them nearly as much as I need to talk to their parents.

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