Online Dating Tips: Up Your Odds of Finding A Good Match

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Default, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 6 August 2018

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

If you’re single, I know you’re looking for online dating tips. Because, ugh, online dating? It’s a love-hate relationship for sure…especially when it comes to being a Christian and trying to date online. From the Christian singles I’ve interacted with: they are online because there seems to be no other way to meet other Christian singles. So you give it a try, but like today’s caller – you aren’t loving it. On today’s episode, I talk to a 36-year-old woman who comes from small town in the middle of nowhere, so online dating seems to be her only hope. But she’s feeling fed up with it, and she’s looking for online dating tips. Somehow, she seems to be attracting the wrong kind of guys. So the question is…is it her? Is it her profile? Is there anything she can do to maximize her chances of finding a good match online. Online Dating Tips You’re going to want to tune in because I’m going to give you THREE TIPS to navigating online dating in a way that’s productive and will up your chances of finding a good match – and weeding out all the rest. Because like I said on today’s episode: It’s just as important to learn to attract the right people, as it is to learn to repel the wrong people. (TWEET IT!!) After our conversation, I’m going to introduce you to a married couple who actually met online – and it’s working for them! They’re going to share their online dating tips and tricks and how they knew it was a right match. You’re going to love their online dating advice so make sure you listen to the very end! I just adore this episode, and I know you will to. Get ready to take some notes! Single, dating, or married this show has something for you. Tune in to today’s episode to hear licensed counselor, Debra Fileta, as she answers her caller through this unscripted conversation in Episode 005 of the Love + Relationships Podcast. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to learn more. Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: Learn to date in a healthy way. Check out my book, True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life Ready to have some brave conversations about marriage? Single, dating, or married, this book is for you. Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me Check out this info graphic with online dating tips! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, everyone, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita. And it is so great to be together again and get to chat about all things love, sex, dating, marriage, and singleness. For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.
0:39.4	And I'm here to take your relationship questions.
0:43.3	I've written hundreds of relationship articles across the internet.
0:46.0	And my relationship advice blog, True Love Dates.com, reaches millions of people with the message
0:52.9	of healthy relationships. And that's really what I'm
0:56.4	passionate about. So what's the deal with online dating? For years, there's been a stigma
1:09.4	surrounding the online dating world. but is that still a thing?
1:14.3	What happens when you've tried online dating and ended up attracting the wrong kind of people?
1:21.4	Is the problem with online dating?
1:24.2	Or is there something you can actually do to up your odds of finding the right kind of people
1:30.7	and even finding a match for your life?
1:34.3	Speaking of the right kind of people, do they even exist?
1:38.6	Is there anyone who has actually met online and had a successful marriage?
1:48.5	Today we're going to dig into the ins and outs of online dating. We're going to start the show with a caller who is ready to give up on online
1:54.8	dating, and she's wondering how to attract the right kind of people. But then later, we've got some
2:00.4	special guests, a married couple,
2:02.9	who want to share their inspiring online dating success story with you. We're going to talk about
2:08.9	all that today and so much more. So let's get started with our first caller. Today we have Megan joining us all the way from Canada. Hi, Megan. Hello. It's good to have
2:29.0	you on the show. Thank you. I'm happy to be here. Yeah. So tell me a little bit about what you've got on your mind for today.
2:37.0	Well, I wanted to ask you about online dating. So I'm 36 and I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere. So there are no single Christian men in my town, so I have to date online.
2:52.4	But I struggle with my attitude towards it because it's not awesome.
2:59.7	And sometimes I hate it and then sometimes I want to put in the effort because I do want to be
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