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Death, Sex & Money

Ocean Vuong on Telling Lies, Building Family and Loving the Knicks

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Podcasts

Business, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Careers, Relationships, Sexuality

4.67.6K Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

The acclaimed poet talks about falling in love with poetry in New York basements, caring for his brother, and mastering — and walking away from — writing.

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0:00.0

If poetry failed me, I wouldn't stop it, but I would really need to wise up and get a job to support my family.

0:09.0

I was not going to be the person who just tinkered with their hobby while somebody else supports them.

0:16.0

I didn't, I was, I felt too guilty to do that.

0:22.0

This is Death, Sex, and Money.

0:26.0

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about, I'm Anna Sales.

0:41.0

Ocean Wang is 34 years old and one of the literary world's most celebrated contemporary writers.

0:49.0

As of last year, he's also a tenured faculty member at NYU, which has meant spending time back in New York City, where he lived for most of his 20s.

0:58.0

When we spoke, Ocean was wrapping up the spring semester and ready to return home to Western Massachusetts.

1:05.0

I'm not much of a city slicker.

1:09.0

So I missed the sound of crickets.

1:11.0

I didn't realize there's no crickets in the city, my goodness.

1:15.0

And the sound of crickets, you know, alleviates your blood pressure because the crickets only sing when there's no predator around.

1:22.0

So I haven't heard a Donna cricket in months, so I'm waiting to hear.

1:27.0

You're safe. It's the sound of nature telling you, for now we're safe.

1:32.0

Yeah, yeah, I have a really robust community of folks in Western Mass and we have folks like really like making a life.

1:41.0

They're ready to kind of settle into something with longevity and care.

1:48.0

Your favorite poet, you might talk to them one day.

1:51.0

The next day, you might do a meal train for them because they've just had surgery or something.

1:55.0

It's very different than the city. The city is a great marketplace.

1:59.0

You know, many people can make here. I can't make here. I have to make somewhere else.

2:03.0

And then I bring my wares to the market.

2:07.0

And that's where it engages with the world.

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