your idea of relaxation and my idea of relaxation is different.

So if I had to like leave my phone down and not do anything,

the anxiety of thinking all the stuff that's going wrong or all the things that I need to do

is not relaxing for me. Because I'm still thinking of all the stuff that I could be doing right now

and actually doing some stuff and accomplishing it is like more stress relief than anything.

I actually envy people who can vacation without their phone. Like I envy you guys who can do

that. I sit and I look at your stories. I see the couples on Instagram that say, yeah,

vacation, we decided to leave our phones at home for the weekend. I would have to go buy a new

phone whenever I got to wherever I'm going. I will buy a new phone because again, that gives me

anxiety. Right. And I don't know how healthy or unhealthy that is and what it means on a deeper

level. I'm sure you guys will let us know in the comments. But I don't I can that is not

relaxing to me knowing that I might not use my phone. So we'll go on dates and we may leave

our phones in the car. I'm cool with that. We'll go on dates and we may turn our phones over. I

am okay with that. We'll have a friend night and we'll say everybody's phone in the middle of the

table while we're so that we can be present. So I know how to be present in moments. But

telling me like planning something for me that's supposed to be relaxing and telling me that

you're taking my phone away from me from day for days, the relationship could end. That's how

maybe that's how attached I guess I am to my phone. But I don't see it as an I'm attached to my phone

kind of deal. It's like I don't know. Like I just like knowing that in the event of an emergency,

I'm available. If somebody should need something I'm available. And then for me, it's like what if

something happens with me and I need to reach out. Do you know how crazy I will go in an emergency

flat tire and I don't have a phone. Do you remember how we used to panic back in the day when our

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