Objects of Desire: The Narcissist-Porn Addiction Connection
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 19 January 2026
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of The Mental Healness Podcast, Lee Hammock explores the complex and often devastating relationship between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and pornography addiction.
We dive into the concept of Object Constancy—the inability to maintain an emotional connection when a partner isn't physically present—and how this drives narcissists toward the instant, low-effort supply found in digital adult content.
Key Discussion Points:
Why porn provides a 'safe' space for narcissists who fear true intimacy.
The role of Splitting in addiction: The 'Perfect' digital image vs. the 'Flawed' real-life partner.
How this addiction manifests as a form of covert betrayal and gaslighting within the home.
Steps toward awareness and breaking the cycle of objectification.
Stay Aware. Stay Healed.
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| 1:00.3 | How many nights have you laid next to someone that was physically there? |
| 1:05.1 | Like you could see them. |
| 1:06.2 | You could touch them. |
| 1:07.5 | But it felt like mentally and emotionally, they were a thousand miles away a million miles away |
| 1:12.4 | right scrolling through the screen scrolling through their phone just like not paying you any of it |
| 1:17.2 | any attention today we're talking about the big elephant in the room the narcissistic elephant |
| 1:23.1 | porn and narcissism and i'm going to tell you straight up for a narcissist, |
| 1:29.1 | porn or corn, |
| 1:30.2 | I'm going to refer to it later on, |
| 1:31.7 | isn't just a past time, y'all. |
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