Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me: Cults, Extreme Belief, and Manipulation

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🗓️ 3 February 2021

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Episode 18: Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann If you have your own story about cults, high-control groups, manipulation, or abuse of power, shoot us an email at [email protected]. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch OR TWITTER: @trustmecultpod @ohlalola

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0:00.0	If you think that one person has all the answers, don't!
0:15.2	Welcome to Trust Me, the podcast about cult, extreme belief, and the abusive power from
0:19.6	two subs.
0:20.6	You'll actually experience it.
0:23.4	My name is Lola Blonk and I'm Megan Elizabeth.
0:26.5	Today, our guest is Nicoletta Heidegger.
0:29.5	She is a marriage and family therapist who specializes in sex.
0:33.3	She's also a sexologist and host of podcasts, sluts, and scholars, which is, of course,
0:38.7	all about sex.
0:39.9	So in this interview, she teaches us, one-on-one of BDSM and Kink, what consensual play
0:45.2	looks like, and signs that your BDSM relationship has crossed over into non-consensual or abusive.
0:51.9	We also talk about slave contracts, sex education in general, army hammer, and how cannibalism
0:58.6	fantasies are not inherently harmful, but insisting on playing without a safe word can
1:04.2	be.
1:05.2	That is right.
1:06.2	I learned so much in this interview.
1:08.4	Me too.
1:09.4	I feel prepared to go out and like, find me a dumb, I mean, this interview blew my mind.
1:18.6	I didn't realize how sheltered from this world, I truly am.
1:23.6	We should also probably give a trigger warning because we are going to get into some abuse
1:27.6	talk.
1:28.6	Yeah.
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