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We're Having Gay Sex

Neil Rubenstein Isn’t Gay-for-Pay, He’s Gay-for-Girls | WHGS Ep. 184

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Society & Culture, Comedy, Comedy Interviews

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 4 September 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Neil Rubenstein is one of Ashley’s oldest friends and a stand up comedian with a new comedy special (Have Some Dignity) OUT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment for a special TIME under the sheets! We discuss being pansexual before it had a definition, the sexual antics of performers, and the secrets to running a successful mom-and-pop brothel. Ashley is working the nipple. Maddie is getting coffee. You can follow Neil on IG & Twitter: @neilrubenstein, Tik Tok: @itsneilrubenstein, And you can watch his full debut stand up special, “Have Some Dignity” at the link below: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSq7bYmdW2w Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is doing a theater tour! Get on her text list to get first dibs on tickets: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Check out our merch: ▶ https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Maddie Wiener’s Newsletter and Tour Dates: https://www.maddiewiener.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener ——— Produced & Edited by Alex “swetshop” Vrahas: https://www.instagram.com/swetshopz/?hl=en ——— Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LMp8IHjYCxw ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Smalls: ▶ Head to https://www.smalls.com/gay and use promo code GAY at checkout for 50% off your first order PLUS free shipping! Green Chef: ▶ Go to https://www.greenchef.com/60gay and use code 60gay to get 60% off plus free shipping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Soldiers of bottom nation. I salute you. Thank you for being here. Thank you for carrying this top on your back

0:11.4

bottom nation. You are loved. You are valid and I appreciate you. Thanks for being here. Happy Monday everybody. Thanks for listening

0:20.0

patreon.com slash WHDS. We've got all that bonus content that's sweet, sweet bonus content for you full episodes for every month and all kinds of other

0:29.6

stuff. I'm on tour. I'm in Los Angeles, San Diego and San Francisco and then Albany and Virginia. A lot of a big, big push for my tour. I'm going to be on tour almost every

0:43.6

weekend for the next few weeks. Maddie's going super viral online. Yay, Maddie. I know a lot of you are supporting Maddie. She'll go sign up for Maddie's mailing list as well as mine. They're going to be selling out some room soon if they

0:56.4

keep going viral like this. It's great. We should go celebrate them and celebrate queer people, queer comedians doing good work and going viral. And that's good. That's

1:04.8

good for us. Anyway, what am I talking about? Oh, today, Neil, my friend Neil Rubenstein, who opens for me on the road, you may have seen him. He's really, really funny. His

1:14.2

special, his comedy special, which I love, have some dignity is out on YouTube right now. Go watch it. Go watch it. Neil is pansexual. I know you're

1:24.2

looking at him being like this straight guy. Neil is pan. You panphobic piece of shit. Neil in this episode talks about coming, like being newly pansexual and exploring, particularly with trans women and how, you know, being a guy

1:40.9

growing up when he did. He didn't feel like he could talk about it a lot with his friends and how great it is that we're, you know, a little more of an accepting culture now. Well, in some places. And so we get into that. So a great,

1:53.1

great episode, really vulnerable, really raw, fantastic. I hope you guys enjoy it. Listener, this episode is brought to you by Green Chef. They are my favorite meal kit. I eat them all the time. They have incredible, clean meals that I can make easily in just 25 minutes. I can feel good about what I'm eating, especially because it's sustainable. They have all kinds of sustainable ingredients and they offset all of their plastic and carbon.

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I cannot tell you how nice it is to know at the end of the day, I've got a delicious meal ready for someone like me, a vegetarian because they accommodate all kinds of dietary restrictions and needs that I can come home at the end of the day, cook it up real quick and enjoy it with my girlfriend, Jen. It's so delicious and easy.

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2:59.6

I have only ever siss due to siss due penis involvement once.

3:09.6

Well, to be found.

3:12.5

So he just had a crush on me and I was trying to bang his friend, this girl, I don't want to say her name. He was like, well, I bet she'd be more into you. If you were more open minded about, I was like, all right.

3:24.0

Wait, he was like, if you fuck me, she'll like you 100% worked, by the way.

3:29.1

I know I know you guys are looking at Neo and thinking what the fuck is happening? What the fuck is happening? But just wait like two seconds. He's a really interesting person. We're in the apartment. We're having gay sex. We're having gay sex with my dear friend. One of the people that I started doing comedy with a million years ago. Yeah.

3:59.1

Neil Rubenstein. Hi. Do I say hi to the Maddie?

4:04.8

We call the soundboard. You know what? To be fair, though, we really don't use it all that much. Yeah. It's a far more talk discussed element of the podcast than like you usually it's faced the other way. Yeah. Well, I turned it around for you today, though. Yeah. Thank you.

4:19.6

Neil. Thanks. Thanks for being here. You just dropped a special on YouTube. Is this out soon or later? When's your special command mid July? Yeah, it'll be out later. Okay. Yeah. So yeah, specials out on YouTube. It's called have some dignity.

4:37.9

And it's really, really good. And if you've seen me on tour, you've seen Neil open for me. Yeah. In Nashville, Louisville, Louisville, Columbus. All kinds of places.

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