Navigating Jealousy & Noticing Needs: Leah’s Update
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 11 June 2024
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Leah returns to share her latest polyamorous explorations!
00:00 She is DONE with shame and excited for period sex!
06:31 How do I get a girlfriend? Leah is willing to fill in as a service Top and desires a femme Top, is exploring steering clear of men on dating apps, she and Wyoh commiserate on the experience of being straight-trained (comphet) bi girls.
15:40 Going from open to polyamorous: past dating baggage plus the realities of time, priorities, and relationship hierarchies.
21:47 Best dating question: “what’s bad about you in a relationship?” Reassurance is normal, building trust, and lessons learned from being a “chill girl” in hookup culture.
29:18 Practicing easy come easy go vibes in a new romantic partnership, noticing her own needs during sex, figuring out in real time with her partners what her body wants, and Wyoh offers scripts for how to communicate in the moment.
45:07 Learning how to navigate jealousy in polyamory, the importance of asking for what you want and allowing people to show up, plus the pitfalls of anticipating reactions.
57:36 Rethinking having kids, dreams of poly community, detached dating defense mechanisms, leaning into comfort and trust as turn-ons.
📈 STATS | 30s queer woman, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, married 11 years, screenwriter
🔗 LEAH LINKS | @newtononmonogamy / @leahfolta
Leah's episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You Out
Leah’s episode from May 2023 | We’re Open and Queer
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| 0:00.0 | Hello lovely humans, I'm Wiley and you are listening to a special past guest |
| 0:09.1 | update episode of Sex Stories, a podcast where we share our personal educations with one another in an effort to make the world a sexier more loving place. |
| 0:17.0 | And our guest today is a woman in her 30s who is Polly and partnered she's been with her husband for 11 years and they've been monogamish the whole time. |
| 0:26.6 | Open to dating other people for three years and Polyamorous for one year. |
| 0:31.6 | She's a screenwriter who's into other kind |
| 0:34.4 | slutty nerds originally from episode 20 the woman who asks you out with last |
| 0:38.8 | year's update we are open and queer links are in the description below if you want to go listen to those. |
| 0:43.4 | Welcome back, my sweet friend Leah! |
| 0:46.6 | Thank you so much for having me. I'm so happy to be back. |
| 0:49.9 | I'm so excited to have you back. |
| 0:51.6 | Let's start by getting today's baseline if you had to rate yourself on a sexual |
| 0:55.4 | shame a meter with 10 being the most full of shame and 1 or 0 being like I don't have it. |
| 1:00.8 | Where are we right now in general? |
| 1:03.0 | Wow, this is new. |
| 1:05.0 | Sexual shame. |
| 1:08.0 | And so separating that out from like regular anxiety or romantic shame or like anything. Specifically when you think about sex like |
| 1:13.0 | specifically when you think about sex I guess for you maybe it has to do with |
| 1:16.8 | polyamory or the fact that you hear on this podcast with me you know |
| 1:19.9 | it can have and feel free to give details of the answer right like beyond the number I'm like |
| 1:24.0 | yeah tell us about your shamel poster or whatever because mine mine still gets |
| 1:27.8 | squiggly sometimes mostly it's like a one or a zero but then sometimes when I'm |
| 1:31.8 | with partners I'm like nine ten twelve you know |
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