What am I supposed to do just like quit because I'm not happy? I don't have the luxury of that. I'm not

a trust fund baby because life is so busy out here. We make all of these compromises. And then all

of a sudden now this job you hated, it's like five years later. And you're like, oh yeah, no, I still hate my job. In fact, I hate it more now than I ever have. And we didn't know who we were when we were younger, we made some of these original decisions and maybe we need to reset something.

Well, we have an opportunity to know ourselves better now through personality types.

Which domains we're more comfortable with will ignore and be deeply uncertain about.

We have the map and we can match it to the domains of life.

And I think this can help navigate tons of transitions.

Hey, welcome back to the Personality Hacker podcast. I'm Joel Mark Witt. And I'm Antonia Dodge.

So I was reflecting this weekend, Antonio. We just got back from my niece's wedding. Big wedding,

probably about, 102 hundred and two hundred people there. Yeah, she's just a little shy of 200 people.

It was huge. It was outdoors, beautiful, beautiful weather on that's like a 140-acre camp ranch facility with the views of the distant mountains and things. It was really a nice. It was lovely. A situation. You and I, it's our family, so we pitched in and helped and were part of the wedding party on the, you know, the edges his aunt and uncle and stuff like that. But we were, you and I were in some discussion around transitions because getting married is a big

transition of life.

And we're talking about, you know, there's these moments that are automatic transitions for us.

We, you know, go to school.

The first day of school is a big transition for a lot of people when they're little kids.

They graduate high school.

They get their driver's license.

Maybe go on a first date, getting married, graduate college, get a first job.

Like we have all these like template markers in society and whatever culture or people group you come from no matter where in the world.

You're going to have a version of kind of these assumed benchmark transitions that you're going to have. I was just watching something last night. It was like a Rick Steve's travel thing. He was about Turkey. Rick Steves is still doing travel videos? Oh, yeah. I was watching with my dad last night before I came back from the wedding stuff. That's, that all by itself shocks me. Oh, yeah. That's amazing.

Rick Steves has been doing them since like, oh, yeah.

For over 20 years now, hey? Oh, 30 years maybe? So he's still doing these. Okay, that's, good job, Rick Steves. Go Rick Steves. Why did I mention that? We're talking about transitions, and you were going to mention you watched something about turkey.

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