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Mama Knows

Navigating Adult Female Friendships w/ Danielle Bayard Jackson

Mama Knows

Cloud10

Parenting, Kids & Family

51K Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

In this conversation, Nina and Danielle discuss the challenges of maintaining friendships, especially in motherhood. They explore the different types of friendships and how to align with different friends. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and managing expectations in friendships. Danielle provides tips on how to navigate a perceived lack of balance and reciprocity in a friendship, and how to identify toxic dynamics. They also discuss the impact of social media on female friendships and ways to make and nurture friendships in busy seasons of life. 00:00: Introduction 03:00: Understanding Different Types of Friendships 08:28: Setting Boundaries and Managing Expectations 13:15: Dealing with a Lack of Balance and Reciprocity 18:48: The Impact of Social Media on Female Friendships 29:06: Making and Nurturing Friendships in Busy Seasons Danielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women’s platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024). Danielle’s coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women’s cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She’s even served as Bumble’s resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends. Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review. You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com. Episode Sponsor: Danielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women’s platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024). Danielle’s coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women’s cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She’s even served as Bumble’s resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends. Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review. You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com. Episode Sponsor: Lume New customers get 15% off all Lume products with our exclusive code. Combine this offer with the already 15% off starter pack and you will get 30% off! Use our exclusive code, mamaknows for 15% off your first purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:17.5

subject to availability selected stores g b only One of the top things I hear in motherhood, especially since becoming a mom and like before having kids friendships were hard. I feel like in our

0:35.2

20s you're navigating friendships in college and even not in college but for me specifically

0:41.1

it was college and you you kind of find your friends and you

0:44.1

stick with those friends but friendships change and when I became a mom I

0:48.8

feel like it was so much harder to nurture friendships.

0:53.3

And now as an influencer, I talked to women all the time,

0:57.3

and they will literally say,

0:58.6

like, I don't have many friends,

1:00.8

I don't have any friends,

1:02.4

I don't know how to nurture my friends and this is a hot topic and I don't know maybe you can speak on this later Danielle, but I always felt alone in it like I was felt like well if I'm having issues with my friends and I'm the problem and I don't want like that's I feel ashamed you know. So friendships hot topic. I'm excited to talk about it. I'm excited for you to normalize all the things

1:25.1

Danielle, but before we dive in, can you please tell us a little bit about yourself?

1:28.8

Yeah, let me start by saying, I so valid, everything you said yes, yes said yes yes and I'm so excited to like dive into all the things and I'm so grateful to you for for having me and facilitating a moment to have this conversation my name is Danielle Byer Jackson. I am a friendship coach and

1:44.6

educator and I always joke that you know when I'm at a party and people ask what do you do?

1:49.4

And I'm like I'm a friendship coach they of like, oh, that's adorable.

1:53.6

I'm like, I swear it's a real job. But the short story of it is, I was a high school

1:58.6

English teacher teaching 12th graders for six years and was the number one thing the girls wanted to talk about

2:03.7

between classes in after school was their friendship drama. Then I was promoted to the

2:08.2

chair of the department and one of the largest schools in the US and at our

2:12.2

staff meetings we were realizing that we

2:14.1

couldn't even give good instruction because these two people aren't talking to

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