My wife just told me she's been seeing someone for the past six months.

Been married eight years, five and six year old kids.

I've been madly in love the whole time as she's an amazing person and mother,

literally keeps the family together and is just spectacular.

Truly.

She was showing me something on her phone and I saw a text come in saying,

I love you more and I asked who it was.

She explained it was a co-worker that she's been helping out and I thought nothing more of it.

That day we had a lot of family over to celebrate our daughter's birthday and it was a wonderful time.

Some stayed overnight so the next day after a wonderful weekend, getting company out and putting the kids

down, my wife said she needs to tell me something. Well, that I Love You More was not from her co-worker.

Well, at least not the one she explained it was, but I'm not sure because she's not sharing any

details regarding the other person. She told me that six months ago when I was in a dark place and have

since come out of it, no drugs except weed and booze, which we both partake in, she found love

in someone else, love that I wasn't providing in our relationship. If I have feelings for someone

else, I'm not sure that I should be married. It's not fair to you or me. I never plan for this to happen, but now that

it's a reality, we need to deal with it. She explained that she wasn't looking for someone else,

it just happened, a friendship that bloomed into more. She's also told me that they have not been

intimate and explained that it's not a sexual relationship. She says that life is too short and

she wants to be happy.

She's proud of all the changes I've made and I've always been a good dad, but I've grown into a

great daddy and my kids and I have never been closer. However, she wants to be 100% happy and the

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