Hey, Hey, Waffle, gang. I do hope you are well. My name is Mark, and today we're checking out some more Reddit stories. And if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider hit that like, subscribe, maybe that notification bell too. And let's crack on with today's first story. Much love, guys. Now, today's first story comes from the am I the arsell here

subreddit from unusual capital 9083 and says, am I the asshole here for not caring about my wife's

affair? My 29 male, wife 29 female, has been having an affair for two years.

And I have been aware of it pretty much the whole time.

We've been together seven years and married for five.

We don't have kids.

I've been working from home since COVID hit.

For the last three plus years she's been a secretary in a large office building.

Now, I'm not going to pretend like we had the perfect marriage two years ago and that I can't believe she would do this.

I was totally complacent in my life and really wasn't putting much effort into our relationship

at all.

That doesn't excuse what she did, and she had her own issues with intimacy and communication

that led us to where we were then. I just want it

clear that I'm no saint in all of this. I totally understand we were basically roommates that on

rare occasions had sex. Well, I found out right away when the emotional affair started. I've got

all of our everything logged into every device we have, including my

work computer. I mean synced email, text, photo, social media, etc. So I was basically reading her

affair regularly, including when it became a physical affair about four weeks in. A part that

told me it was over though was I felt nothing about this.

I was totally indifferent, maybe a little embarrassed at worse.

When the physical affair started two years ago, I recognized this marriage was dead and

that I should just divorce, mostly because I felt nothing.

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