My wife drives to my job to nag me for not doing chores. I stay silent and let security throw her out.

So my wife, who's 26 and I, 33, have been married for two years. I admit that she's a hothead

and can be a bit much, especially when she's mad at me. I take responsibility for any mistake I make, like not

cleaning the bathroom after the shower, or filling her car with gas after using it. I even stand

there and let her unload her anger and frustration on me, but only at home and not in public. She

tends to start arguing with me in public instead of waiting until we get home.

Recently, she's been coming to my workplace to berate me over something I did the night before,

like not getting the stuff I said I would, or doing the stuff I said I would do. It's

embarrassing and humiliating, and has been affecting my job to the point where I start getting

warning after warning from my superiors,

who, I believe, have been very patient and understanding, especially when my wife makes a fuss at the office.

I've told her that showing up at my workplace was not okay and a complete crossing of boundaries a million times over,

but she refused to take responsibility and said that

I'm the one creating these situations, and I can't blame or dictate how she reacts. It's tiring

having to go through the same thing over and over again. I get that she's frustrated,

and I have my moments too, but I'd never show up to her workplace and cause a scene,

no matter what the justification was. Last week, I was in the middle of a two-hour meeting,

and the next thing I knew, I was seeing my wife barge in while yelling at me, asking why I was

keeping the phone turned off. I had to turn it off after getting the warnings about it,

since she forbade me from turning it off. I was stunned, because off after getting the warnings about it since she forbade me from turning

it off. I was stunned because my superior and co-workers and potential clients were there. I didn't

even move. My superior dealt with it and called security to get her out. My wife started arguing with him,

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