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is intimidating dear stephen shirley i'm 37 and never been married. I was in a four-year

relationship and when I got promoted, my boyfriend left the relationship. We met on an online

dating site for professionals and we were compatible on so many levels. He is an administrator

at his job and I was a team leader when we started dating.

I wanted love, and he provided that, but he also added a lot of competition to our relationship.

When I get dressed in the morning to head out to work, he'd say, I looked powerful instead of beautiful,

and he would tell me to boss up if I complained about stress at work.

He treated me like he was my mentor and I was beneath him professionally, but I actually made more money than him.

Then I got a promotion and a company car and he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be making annually.

He insinuated that I was too close to my

boss and that's why I got a promotion. We argued for days and then he moved out. Since we broke

up, I've had a few dates but I haven't found a man that matches me intellectually or financially.

One guy told me that my success is very intimidating.

I wish men could see my sweet and nurturing side, but as soon as I tell them what I do for a living,

they decide that I don't have time for a relationship. I have thought about telling guys that I have an

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