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from Departure Old 6400.

And it's titled, Am I the A Hole for Making My Brother's Wedding Reception About Me?

I, 25 female, am a bridesmaid to the fiancé, 30 female, of my older brother, 31 male.

She and I aren't particularly close, but I don't dislike her and I suspect she might

have asked me because I'm my brother's sister. I of course agreed and I was even fine with her

putting me in whatever style she wanted so long as it didn't involve me cutting slash dyeing my

hair, you know, any major changes. It's not my day and I can suck up an ugly dress and act like it's gorgeous

if that makes her happy. The issue, however, is that I'm a wheelchair user. I know that the wedding

venue is fine for me as it's our local church, totally accessible so all good. It's the venue

being used for the reception that worries me. I asked though where the reception was going to be and if it was accessible for me and had an

accessible bathroom. You know, just covering my bases. She didn't get back to me. I figured she was

busy so left it a week or so before chasing her up again to re-ask. She told me she wasn't

sure, so I asked where it was and she told me. I ended up looking

up the building and my heart sank. It is an old building, not accessible at all for me, and no

bathrooms I could feasibly use either. I told this and she got very upset saying my brother

had told her that he'd cover the cost, and she should just pick whatever she loved,

and that she loved this. She then went on to suggest that we could just have someone carry me

into the building, and my family or the other bridesmaids could help me use the bathroom

when needed, which the very idea of it mortified me. I'm not about to agree to being carried in

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