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So, you know, I've been married just over 20 years now to a man that, you know,

he has a great job.

Naval Reserve is the officer in the Naval Reserve.

You know, I'm a nurse.

We have great incomes, but, you know, we started out this marriage with, you know, it all

kind of evolved because we really started this marriage with no communication about finances.

And, you know, it's the typical, I'm the spender, he's the saver.

But to him, he's very black and white,

very engineer-like, needs nothing in his life. You know, he doesn't need vacations, doesn't

have hobbies, friends, nothing. So, you know, that just puts my spending on steroids, which

I don't even spend that much. I mean, it's just that he doesn't need to

spend it. You're out of control. Right. So he just, he won for that because he's so, yes, he's just

so literal to the point, I mean, and that is the issue, the degree that he is literal is the problem.

And it's created this, you know, he's gotten so

financially abusive. We've never shared accounts. He, you know, he transfers what he wants

by allowance to my account. I can't see the other accounts. Okay, hold on one second. Hold on,

hold on, hold on. He's not on the call. So I can tell you right now, he sucks. That's not a way to be married to somebody, okay?

But he's not on the call. I understand. So let me ask you, what have you done to try to bridge this gap? Well, I mean, the problem is he only cares about the...

No, no, you just brought you.

You went right back to him.

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