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Now today's first story comes from New Cartographer 5 5381 from the Am I the Arsul Here

subreddit.

And it says, am I the arseall here?

For giving my husband an ultimatum.

My husband and I, male 28, female 30, met at university and had been married for four years. Over the past two years,

my husband has been sending monthly, sometimes even weekly, sums of money to his younger sister

to allow her to pursue her dreams. For context, my husband's sister dropped out of uni two years

ago because she felt it wasn't good for her, and it's been

bouncing from fantasy to fantasy in trying to find what she is passionate about and good at.

These sums of money have been increasing, and I feel uncomfortable with us giving so much

money to someone, even if it is his family member.

I raised and have been raising the issue with him, but he can't

find it in himself to deny his sister. He'll start to come around to my point of view, but

the moment he speaks to her, he surrenders all over again. More immediately, last weekend,

I gave my husband an ultimatum that he either stopped giving money to his sister or

would have to seriously consider our marriage. He did not react well and said that he wasn't going

to be selfish when we had so much money to spare. I told him this wasn't about the money,

but about setting boundaries with his family. Unfortunately, he refused to listen and said that he wanted to help his sister achieve her dreams.

This is the first big fight we've had in years, but I don't think I'm in the wrong.

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