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🗓️ 26 August 2022
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0:00.0 | Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from two to five PM Eastern time on serious XM. |
0:10.0 | I'm 11. Jennifer, welcome to the program. Thank you, Dr. Loura for taking my call. A little background. I'm 53. My husband's 55. |
0:21.0 | We've been married for 27 years. We have one son that is 18, not to go off to college. And we have not had sex in three years. |
0:34.0 | He was a former police officer, so he worked a lot of shift work was always tired. |
0:42.0 | I felt like he was only a police officer for the last three years. No, he was a police officer probably for 15 years. |
0:51.0 | And then what did that have to do with the last three years? |
0:56.0 | He was very obese and he had this sleep procedure performed. So we had not had sex before. |
1:06.0 | He was a severely obese police officer. |
1:12.0 | Yeah. |
1:13.0 | They let him work as a police officer severely obese. How could he run after a bad guy? I agree. I agree. |
1:21.0 | Okay. Okay. So severely obese often don't have sex. And what can I do for you? |
1:29.0 | I don't. I when I was talking to him about our relationship every time I would bring up the intimacy issue, we would always get into an argument. |
1:40.0 | He didn't want to discuss it. |
1:43.0 | You know, I tried to do that. You have three choices. And one of them is not arguing with him about it. One is you leave. |
1:52.0 | The other is you stay and keep arguing. |
1:56.0 | The third is you stay and accept that you can be intimate on every other ground, but sexually. |
2:02.0 | That you can be friends. Confidence. Close. |
2:08.0 | That you're intimate in any way except sex because intimacy and sex are not necessarily. |
2:14.0 | Can't use those two words simultaneously necessarily. You know, because you can have sex with some guy you meet in a bar in the next 10 minutes. |
2:22.0 | That's not intimate. That's sex. |
2:24.0 | So those are your three choices. You got to give them a lot of thought to leave to stay and keep arguing and ruin the rest of the relationship. |
2:34.0 | So that the rest of it's unpleasant or three you stay and just accept that that part of the relationship is over. |
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