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Guaranteed human. My friend always cancels on me last minute, so I ghosted her on her birthday to teach her a lesson. No. You just got to teach a lesson? I had a fight with my best friend, both 20 female, on her birthday, and I don't know how to handle it. Also, English is not my first language. My best friend is a great girl. Kind, hardworking,

and smart. Unfortunately, she can also be a bit unorganized and impulsive. This means that she's always late to everything and that she sometimes has to cancel plans last minute. By the way,

this comes from a gape ornus on the R.Slau K Storytime, Suburit. So she is currently living on the other side

of the country with her parents. She used to live here and came back for a week to take some exams

and celebrate her birthday. She also had to clean and prepare her parents' house in the city for some new

tenants, which apparently took a lot of time because the house was a mess. For her birthday, she decided to hang out in the evening with her other friend group.

I know some of them because we used to be friends in the past and go trekking with me on the next day.

We had planning to go trekking together for a while now and this was the perfect occasion.

So I carefully planned our day together, found a good route, etc. Keep in mind that I

planned this trip a week in advance while her other friend group only decided what to do in the

evening that same day. The evening before the trip, while she was with them, I assume, she sends me a

text telling me that she doesn't have the right shoes to go trekking so she can't come.

It seems like easy problem to solve. Yeah, what the heck? I tried to find a solution and asked her why didn't she tell me before? And she said that even if she had the right shoes, she was too exhausted to come. That really sucks. She tells me she had been cleaning the entire day and was even too tired to hang out that evening so she wouldn't have made it the next day. If you know you have something, don't exhaust yourself for it. And is she making different plans? Yeah. Like if you're exhausted, yeah, don't do something you can't, you don't have the energy to do. Sure, but you had plans to hang out. So, you know. OP isn isn't so attached to trucking, I so they just want to hang out with you. I got upset at this because it's not the first time this happened. She's always canceling plans last minute and I feel like she favored her other friend group over me, even though I'm supposed to be her best friend and had planned this a week in advance. While they decided what to do

that same day, my reasoning is that if she was as tired as she said, she is, she could have canceled

the plans she made with them or at least avoid going clubbing that evening. So we still could have

gone trekking together. I feel like she decided to cancel plans with me instead because we're

closer and she thought I would have

been more understanding. I was about to say that. Sometimes when you have really, really close

friendships, there is like, like, yeah, yeah, and which is not fair. You got to make sure that

you're still being considerate of those friends. The point is that I'm tired of being understanding,

tired of organizing stuff with her knowing that she'll ditch me, tired of of waiting for her every time we hang out. Tired of having to accommodate her in so many ways. One example is that since she's scared of walking home alone at night, we can basically only hang out near her house, which means I have to take a 45-minute trip from my house to hers every time because she can't meet me halfway. That's a long trip. OPE is putting a lot into this front trip. Doesn't seem really she's being that halfway. I decided to ghost her text because I had plans to go clubbing that evening. And I knew that if I answered her, we would have fought and both our evenings would have been ruined. So it seems less like O.P. Is doing it out of spite the ghosting.

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