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Dear Shandy

My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2022

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everything, they don't see eye to eye on wedding vows. He wants to opt out of writing them at all. Should she insist or prioritize his comfort zone?

Our second caller, Kate, finds herself involved in a confusing "friendship", years after extricating herself from the emotionally manipulative ex they have in common. How should she handle this relationship, and should she be concerned by the old emotions that still seem to linger? Listen on for the Shandy take!


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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nicki!

23:35 - Shandy Debrief

32:00 - Welcome To Caller Kate!

1:04:06 - Shandy Debrief


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0:56.3

That wound is an open, but the wound is, it's got a trusty scab on it now, that you

1:07.8

itch a lot.

1:15.0

Welcome back to Dear Shandy, listeners.

1:17.4

Hello, Andy.

1:18.4

Hello.

1:19.4

How are you today?

1:20.4

Great.

1:21.4

We're so excited today to be joined by Nikki.

1:23.4

Nikki, thank you so much for joining us.

1:25.2

Thanks so much for having me.

1:26.5

Do you mind giving us your age, your region, whatever you're comfortable sharing, and also

1:32.6

the age of if there's a partner in question, and then your story?

1:36.0

Yeah, okay.

1:37.0

So, I'm 29, and my fiance is 31.

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