My fiancé, who was a 25-year-old woman, dumped me a 26-year-old man on Tuesday.

Today, she tells me she wants the apartment to herself tomorrow for her Valentine's Day.

This was originally posted the day before Valentine's 2014 February the 13th, of course.

I'll try to keep this short because I'm so stunned I think I've stopped being able to

process things. I have been with my fiancé for four years. We've been engaged since last year and

have been actively planning the wedding. Last month we moved to a new city across the country because

my fiance got an amazing job offer. I wasn't happy about it since I had to quit my job and all our family and

friends were in the city we left. I was kind of a jerk during the moving process. But I've come

around since getting here. My fiance kept talking about this guy, late 20s maybe. She worked

with at her new job and it made me uneasy. I went to a few after work events where he showed up and he seemed like a total jerk,

very full of himself artistic type. I didn't like the way he interacted with my fiancee,

and we would occasionally fight about it. Tuesday night, she got home really late, sat me down,

and broke up with me. She said she felt an immediate bond with this co-worker that's stronger than anything she's

ever felt before.

This from the woman who just a few months ago I held in my arms while watching the stars,

as she told me she's never felt more at peace than when she's beside me.

I laid awake on the couch all night, feeling like I was continually being punched in the stomach.

I didn't fall asleep until 3pm yesterday, and I stayed asleep until this morning when she woke me up.

Basically, she's having this chirk over for Valentine's Day and demanded she get the apartment to herself.

Between the move, all the deposits we've been putting for wedding stuff

and not having a job since we moved out here, I literally have no money for a hotel or anything

else. We got into a big fight because I called her out and said she knew I had nowhere else to go.

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