My fiance is doing business with my high school bully, and I don't know what to do about it.

My wife, her best friend and I, went to high school together, but I ran in a very different social

circle. They played sports and were decently well-known and popular. I was really into art and

computers. I was really chubby and I had an awkward haircut. We all went to a rather large high

school, so it was more that I knew about them rather than knowing them personally. Back up, my wife,

and Daria, her best friend, have been best friends since they were really young. They both moved

into the same neighborhood in preschool, and their parents are very close. In high school,

there was this guy named Chris, who would regularly bully me. There was a name that Chris and his

friends called me based on a thing that happened my sophomore year. It was essentially a trap that

Chris and his friends had set up, so that I would be embarrassed and they could pretend I had done

it to myself. I feel like I'm already doing a bad job hiding my identity, so let's just say that

my name was stinky. I hated it. They called me this all the time and made me the butt of many of their

jokes. Chris was very popular and was friends with Becca and Daria in high school. Chris was good

looking, wealthy, and he knew it. He walked around like he was untouchable. Insert all of the wealthy

athletic, good looking stereotypes that you want here. They pretty much all rang true with him.

I hated him and hated any time that I had to be around him. I know that a lot of people

faced some really violent bullying, so I don't want to make it sound like I was physically tortured,

but I did feel like I was relentlessly harassed. I was very thankful and excited to get out of my

hometown and away from those people when I went to college. I don't know if it was growing up

or growing into myself, the ability to reset my identity or just getting away from bullies,

but I really found myself in college. I'm still a bit of a nerd and artistic, but I grew into my

body. I started making friends and realized that I had something to offer to the world. I rapidly

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