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So my question has to do with my dad wanting my husband and I to take a $60,000 loan.

That's a parent plus loan he took when I went to college.

Okay.

And at the time, I never made a plan with him to pay it back.

He never said, you know, at this date, you're going to become responsible for this

or anything like that.

I've been married three years now, and we have wanted to help my dad because obviously it

helped me a lot but I'm really really regretting that now and I think like he never said

anything when we got married or anything like that and I think he's just he's had a lot of conflicts

with my husband and the way I see And I think he's just, um, he's had a lot of conflicts with my husband. And

the way I see it, it's like he's just frustrated with us and, um, oh, so you think this is for spite?

I do. Oh. How much can you tell us about the, the context of this resentment? Was it because of financial choices?

No.

Or is he using this as leverage?

I believe he's using it as leverage.

I think if I were to say like, oh yeah, sorry, my husband, this, this and this, just like you say,

then maybe he would be like, okay, just because for the past 12 years, he's been paying on this loan

and has not ever mentioned it.

So what does he not like about your husband?

Where's the beef?

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