It's Friday, and this is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

All right, let's go to Josiah in Salt Lake City.

Josiah, what's going on? How can we help?

Hey, Dr. Dean Rachel. Thanks for taking my call.

You got it.

To keep a long story short, for a little bit, now I've had some suspicion that my brother was stealing money through various sources from my disabled mother.

I confronted him about it and let my mother know what was going on.

He still has not been 100% honest with either me or my mother.

My issue is this isn't a first time saying he's stolen from me before.

I'm just finding it hard to keep a relationship with both my brother and my mom because now

she's looking as if it's a minor issue and I'm worried that it's just going to bleed or dry and eventually he's just

going to be gone and i'm going to be stuck trying to fund her for the rest of her life

yeah you you man i hate this for you jessia you're wrestling with um i can hear as you're processing

this you're turning this into a future math problem.

But man, I want to bring you back to right here.

This just hurts, man, and I hate that for you.

What struggles does your mom have?

Since I was 10, so about 20 years ago, she was diagnosed with arts.

She's now just got multiple other health issues. She's basically been bedridden

my whole life. That's hard, man. So here's a challenge that everybody with this type of family

situation deals with. We all are, we love our brothers and sisters, our moms and dads. We are all trained to, and socialized, and it's just the right thing.

And you take care of your family, right?

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