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We Met At Acme

My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 January 2020

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I sit down with author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay. We discuss everything from why you can never assume anything in dating, leading with love, why it’s okay to tell people you if you like them, guys in their 20s vs guys in their 40s, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my break up and what to say and not say to someone who is going through one.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a DR Media production.

0:06.3

Hey guys, welcome back to We My Didak Me. This is a bit of a sad episode for me today because I

0:18.0

you know, I'm telling you something from the bottom of my heart and it's just just

0:23.9

it's a sad subject and if I didn't have a platform like this, I wouldn't have to talk about it at

0:29.2

all but I do and I want to be honest and open with you guys always and I hope that maybe it could

0:36.3

help someone else, you know, going through something but essentially my boyfriend and I,

0:44.8

we broke up and it sucks like breakups are really hard and shitty no matter what happened,

0:53.6

no matter, you know, what the situation was, breakups are really hard and it's hard not to feel

1:02.5

like a failure like I obviously, you know, wanted this to be something that worked but the reality is

1:09.6

that ultimately, you know, Max and I, my ex, we're not at least right now working and that doesn't

1:23.4

mean that we wouldn't and won't in the future but you know, I just want to be transparent with

1:30.4

you about that because I don't feel like it'd be genuine to not address things and I've been getting

1:38.8

a lot of questions from you guys. I feel like, you know, you're pretty smart and can understand or

1:45.8

or at least realize that I haven't been talking about a boyfriend recently or posting anything

1:53.2

and you know, there are good days and bad days. I, I'm not going to get into exactly what happened

1:59.8

just out of respect for, for him but there's no bad blood between us. There's, there's no bad energy.

2:09.4

He's an amazing, incredible person and I feel so lucky that I was able to get to know him and

2:19.8

our lives were able to intertwine and I will be forever grateful for that. You know, sometimes

2:28.1

no matter what, no matter how much love and respect you have for one another, it's just, it just

2:35.5

doesn't work and I think that to have that realization before taking that next step is really a

2:45.3

blessing and so many people don't have that realization and so many people, you know, end up

2:51.5

going forward and getting married and having kids when they're not necessarily sure if they're

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