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And our first story comes from Hurt, need, from the relationships I read it and says,

My 23 female boyfriend 28 male of eight years says I'm abusive.

I'm confused.

Need advice.

Hi guys, I'm using a throwaway and avoiding names for anonymity.

So I don't really know where to start.

It's almost a decade in my life and I could write about it for days. But I try to pick out the unimportant bit. I 23 female had been with my boyfriend 28 male for eight years. I know it's

pretty much impossible to paint a good picture of someone through a few paragraphs of a

story, especially considering I'm mostly pointing out problem areas, but please keep in mind that

he's a good person. He's loving, gentle, cares about me more than anything, and absolutely devoted to me.

But we have tangled this relationship into quite a mess. Like everyone

who posts here have countless reasons to want to stay, but I'm having trouble taking off

these rose-colored glasses. Please help me read it. Back story. When we started dating, I was going

through a lot of shit, and he was the first guy I have ever been with.

I was the one who was always compromising and always finding ways to go see him.

He very rarely came to see me, and if he did, he would get irritated and complain that he

shouldn't have to.

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