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Am I the Jerk?

My BIL Makes his Wife His Slave via Weaponized Incompetence… Until I Reveal Everything at Dinner

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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0:00.0

My brother-in-law makes his wife his slave via weaponized incompetence, until I reveal everything at dinner.

0:08.7

I, 24, have a sister who's 32. Her husband is 38 and is the poster child of weaponized incompetence.

0:17.3

They have four kids, a 10-year-old girl, and three boys, eight, five, and three, respectively.

0:22.7

And my sister is pregnant again. My sister works a full-time job, like 40 hours a week,

0:28.3

and cleans her entire house, cooks, takes care of all of her children without him doing anything.

0:34.4

It's seriously mind-blowing that she wakes up at about 4 a.m., cooks breakfast, does chores,

0:39.6

gets all her kids ready for school, takes them all to school and daycare, and all he does is stay at

0:44.5

home and work. And when his kids get home, after my sister picks them up, of course, he'll play

0:49.6

with them for a little bit and then just play video games until he falls asleep. She actually makes more money than him.

0:55.9

My fiancé, a 26-year-old guy, and I had to stay with them for six weeks while our home was being

1:01.1

renovated, and since we both work from home, we helped her, and it is amazing how much happier she is

1:06.7

when she has help. I helped with the kids, and my fiancé even drove her to her doctor's appointments.

1:12.5

Her husband literally only acknowledges that he's a parent when his family is around,

1:16.9

and then he's a god-fearing, hard-working father of five. He's the one that wanted more kids,

1:22.2

she wanted to stop after her last baby, but he, quote, needed more boys. I'm seriously concerned not only for her,

1:29.4

but her kids as well, because now her oldest is seeing what's happening and trying to help,

1:34.6

but my sister is prideful and refuses to let her child do anything. Me and this man have never

1:40.0

gotten along. He's been acting like this since their eight-year-old was born. I've tried talking to her

1:45.3

about leaving, but she doesn't want her kids to grow up in a broken home. And unfortunately,

1:50.2

her experience with our parents was completely different than mine. So she doesn't understand

1:54.7

that a divorce could benefit her kids here because she thinks they need their mum and dad together.

2:00.4

So cut to this past weekend. Her and her

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