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my youngest brother who just turned 30. He has never financially been independent from my parents. And so, you know, being the baby,

I might have something to do with it, but just ever since he's been in college and have graduated

and is now married, my parents have always financially provided for him, even, you know,

in Bill Life, marriage into his 30s

etc about three years ago my dad sold his company that he worked really really

hard to build built it over about 25 years sold it made some good money and

naturally since that happened asks for money or for financial help

from my brothers, specifically my youngest, have drastically increased. I have expressed my concerns

to my parents that they are getting taken advantage of. They have heard those,

don't necessarily acknowledge those. My dad is an incredibly generous person and actually

would call himself a Dave Ramsey disciple, but he doesn't really, I don't think, see the

fact that he's getting taken advantage of.

For a little more context, my wife and his brother are pregnant, and they are expecting this year.

And I just choose to believe that they wouldn't necessarily be planning to expand their family unless they had a financial

backer in the form of my parents.

And so I just see it coming from a mile away and my parents don't necessarily see it

that way.

I actually,

I don't know my parents understand that what's really happening.

Here's the thing.

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