I'm a little suspicious of myself because so many other times when I thought I was entirely right

turned out that I wasn't.

So I begin by saying, Lord, help me to, tell me to see where I'm wrong. Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson.

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So yesterday we opened up a topic.

So yesterday we opened up a topic you're just you're just passionate about

the S words submission oh I thought you're gonna talk about how the husband is called

to love his wife as Christ loved the church.

I love that.

That was another thing we talked about yesterday and I thought we covered that one pretty good.

We've got Chad and Emily Van Dixhorn back with us in the studio talking about their book Gospel-shaped marriage.

And the subtitle is what really caught me too

is Grace for Sinners to Love Like Saints.

And that's, we all need that. that we're all sinners but we're called

the love like Saints is in that's impossible without the power of God living in

us in the gospel the reason I brought up submission because you guys talked about it so well yesterday, but even as we went off there you're like

Submission can be hard, but it's sometimes too easy and I'm like wait what? So we want to throw that at you and say what do you mean by that because I think we all want to know

well there is a counterfeit submission a fake submission and that's what is too easy. I've heard some women say, oh I'm just

so happy I don't have to think about it I'll just let my husband make that decision and I'll just

submit to him. And I've even felt it because there's hard decisions to make. What school should

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