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Finding Joy in Your Home

Moms (and dads) get those little ones to Church – Hf #310

Finding Joy in Your Home

Jami Balmet

Religion & Spirituality, Homemaking, Living, Kids & Family, Christian, Mother, Healthy, Christianity, Joy, Homemaker, Wife

4.9654 Ratings

🗓️ 19 December 2020

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Church with littles in tow can be tough. Worth it, but tough. In this episode we are going to chat about the importance of being in Church as a family and some tips for making it easier. Listen to the Podcast: You can find important links & info below. And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. Ever since our first set of twins started making all those loud noises that babies do when they "talk", it's been hard. I remember one Sunday, pulling into Church, already exhausted from the Sunday morning scramble. We had hurried around getting 3 year old twins dressed and fed, wrangled 14 month old twins into their outfits, and got my pregnant self semi-put together...and I glimpsed a mom of 6 with older kids...just walking into church. She was holding her coffee and her Bible. And each kid was walking across the parking lot by themselves (NOT in constant danger of being run over). And I know she had her own struggles that day... But man I was so overwhelmed at the moment that I couldn't imagine a day like that coming. I had spent SO many Sunday's feeling so defeated and wondering what the point was anyway. I'm still in the tenches with 6 kids 7 and under, but not nearly as deep as a when we had 5 kids 4 and under ? But I've started seeing the pay off (STARTING to see ?). Moms (and dads), it's worth it. Show up. Model the discipline it takes to get there. Lay out clothes the night before, put oatmeal on the crockpot to be ready, have a snack ready for in between services...make it easier! But.show.up. Bring them to Church so they hear God's Word preached. Let them see believers of all ages worshipping together. And don't sweat the small stuff (preaching to myself here). It'll get easier. It'll get sweeter. But show up. God will take care of the rest ? Training littles:  Some days are awful. They just are. Some days are good. Don't let this discourage you. Make sure no one goes hungry. Start off with a calm morning (and make sure they got enough sleep) If you go to tow services, bring a snack in between! Set the expectation: Make it so they are not happy if they have to be taken out of service. (chocolate chips example) Bring things to occupy little hands. We have special coloring bags, they can draw, take notes, ect. Don't sweat the noise: You are training them. It's good work. Don't give up, even if it feels awkward and hard. And it's probably much louder to you than it is to others. Watch other moms: Many of them are awesome and know what they are doing!! Train outside of church: Go out to eat and talk about expectations. Do quiet reading time at home, ect. And don't give up. It gets easier. I think sometimes we get this idea that if we don't perfectly train them at 2, then they will be hopeless cases by the time they are 8. It's not true. Keep training them. All kids are different and will respond differently. Now that the oldest are 8 and 5, it's so much easier to train them then when we had 4 and 2 year olds. Links:  Follow me over on Instagram Our Sponsor: Get 2 weeks of FREE meal planning from PrepDish.com/Homemaking

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0:00.0

This is The Homemaking Foundations podcast with Jamie Belmay, episode number 310.

0:06.0

Welcome to the Homemaking Foundation's podcast, where we give you the tools, inspiration, and encouragement you need to craft a gospel-centered home.

0:14.3

And now your host from youngwifesguide.com, Jamie Belmay.

0:20.1

Hey, ladies, welcome back to the Homemaking Foundation's podcast.

0:25.1

I am really excited.

0:26.8

So this week over on Instagram, I have been sharing a little bit about our rebrand

0:32.1

that's coming up.

0:33.7

I've shared about this on the podcast before, but I did kind of want to keep reminding

0:37.4

you guys so that when the name changes here on wherever it is that you're listening to this episode, you know that it's still me.

0:43.8

So we are doing kind of an entire rebrand across the board. Our content is staying the same. In fact, in some ways, this is going to allow us to be more focused and have better content for you.

0:54.4

But the content is not changing.

0:56.4

We're just trying to get a little bit more focused.

0:59.0

So when I started my, well, I actually started blogging 12 years ago, which is crazy.

1:04.3

And when I started my blog, Young Wife's Guide, I was super young.

1:09.8

And it totally fit. It fit the direction of what I thought I was

1:14.0

going to be talking about. And that was before I had a podcast. It was before we had our whole

1:19.2

entire Homemaking Ministry store. It was before we ever did an online conference. And since then,

1:25.0

when we started the podcast, when we started all of those different

1:28.2

things, I didn't want to be locked into that young wife idea. This was not, my podcast is not just

1:33.6

for young wives. The conference for sure is not just for young wives. And so that was kind of the

1:39.6

reason for not branding everything young wives, young wife's guide guide on everything and now we kind of have this

1:45.2

hodgepodge of everything's named differently and it's super confusing and i just don't think it serves

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