I was watching your conversation with Tom Billion. I found it really, really interesting

and important because one of the things you talk about when we're talking about deciding

what you want to do with your life, whether it's a business or you want to be a pick-up

artist or whatever it is, is the importance of asking the question, why? And in the society

and culture we live in, especially one that's so driven by comparison, where your values

are almost being handed to you by Instagram and the Kardashians. This is how, this is what

you should value. I almost felt, I remember one day a kid came up to me after I did this

big talk on stage and he said, I want to be a public speaker. And he was like 17. And

you're thinking, but you've got nothing like, yeah, what are you, the talking about?

And really what he's saying is, he doesn't want to be a public speaker. He wants the admiration.

He thinks public speakers get probably because he's insecure. And so many kids, including

myself as a young kid, we don't actually know what we want. We have no fucking clue.

But what we probably want is not to be insecure and get laid. Like at the heart of it.

And the pursuit of that, as you've described, takes us down a dark alley to the wrong place,

usually a dead end as well. So how do I figure out what I actually want in my life without

it being Kardashian noise or Instagram? Like what does, what do I want? And how do I find

out? I think so it's a tricky thing, right? Because again, I think you could, you know,

you kind of have to get it wrong. It's like the relationships. You need to get a couple

wrong before you know how to get it right. And I think it's the same in pursuing a career

or finding a purpose in life. Like you need to get it wrong a couple times because

we're experts at tricking ourselves. You know, it's like that kid, he wants admiration, right?

But if you ask them in his head, he's like, no, no, I'm just really passionate about

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